A friend recently asked if single people had different worries than married people. Did they think differently ??which was better ?? This what I say:
You think u know life untill you meet friends and you realise there is so much more to it; you think you know love untill you meet your other half you know what it is to be loved; you think you know heaven untill you have a child and realise that you... have little bit of heaven right there in your arms. Each stage unique each stage wonderful each stage filled with hope expectations failures happiness sadness frustrations exhilarating moments. I would never exchange one for the other.
Single - fun, bit of parties, girly gossips, puppy crushes, bit of heart breaks, career worries, exam tensions, lots of laughter and deep carefree sleep. That's what I remember and miss the most -sleep. Then I met Yogesh and we started a whole new life together. It was fun, exciting, lots of laughter, lots of fights, responsibilities, career realignments. Marriage requires a lot of work and commitment and adjustments. But I know there is someone always there for me no matter how late it is at night. It's enduring and everlasting friendship. A friend who is with me forever.
And then came the kids. The first time I held them I knew what heaven was - holding an angel in my arms. Well then it turned to hell when they cried . Kids can take you to the deep depths of hell and to the very heights of heaven. Partying, skiing, sky diving, bungee jumping - nothing can give you that rush of adrenalin and pure joy like the happy face of your child full of love and adulation. I love going home knowing there are 2 pairs of happy arms waiting to hug me. Don't be fooled by this - its hard work and not for everyone. Requires patience , lots of love, and sheer madness to get u thru the days and those oh so long nights !!!
As a single lady I worried abt studies, career , money, shoes, clothes, food
As a wife I worry abt studies, career , money, shoes, clothes, food but fr both of us
As a mom I worry abt studies, career, money , shoes, clothes ,food but now for my kids
Thoughts and worries are the same just for others now.
