Tuesday 12 June 2007

Paris - An experience of a lifetime

Seems like something that happened ages ago ... but here are the sweet memories of the trip.

We are back after a splendid trip to Paris; the City of lights. It was really wonderful.
Firstly: walking around Paris is a very tiring task. The city is huge and even though the attractions can been seen from anywhere, they are actually miles and miles apart!!! Key attractions are Arc De Triomphe, La Defense, Eiffel Tower, Concorde, and Louvre Museum. The city is so beautiful there are many more glittering gems hidden out there. But it is for you to go and discover them.
We started with Louvre which has some of the best paintings in the world; most noticeably Mona Lisa. Oh yes we saw her, but to say the truth there are many other paintings much better than Mona Lisa. The sculptures too were great. The museum is huge and it’s not possible to cover entire place in one day. We just had a look at some paintings and then decided to carry on to our next stop.
Cathedral of Notre Dame: yes the setting for Hunch Back of Notre Dame. Victor Hugo had painted such a marvellous picture of this cathedral that we could almost see the Hunch Back ringing the old bells!! This cathedral took almost 200 hundred years to complete and you can see the ideas of numerous architects in its arches and domes and frightening gargoyles. It’s an amazing piece of history. For a scenic view of the cathedral one should look at it from across the River Seine. It is magnificent. We tore ourselves away from there to visit
Sainte Chapelle: This chapel is housed in the Palace of Justice. This is an exquisite piece of Gothic architecture. It is almost entirely made up of stained glass windows. Words cannot describe the beauty of the place. When the sun streamed through the stained windows, the whole place was lit up in a myriad of colours. It was almost like being in heaven. After some quiet contemplation (and photo clicking) we decided to go back to our hotel. And so ended Day 1 of our trip.
Now our hotel's name was Place De Clichy, which as its name suggests was in Place De Clichy (how cliche). Anyways this place is home to one of the hottest and most famous cabarets Moulin Rouge!!! Yes as in the Nicole Kidman movie. !! Unfortunately we didn't go in. Its expensive and you have to be formally dressed and there was a HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE Q for it. So all we could do was admire it from the outside and of course go click click !!!
The next day we set out for MontMartre. The area of MontMartre is set upon a hill and grandly overlooks Paris. It is home to Basilique du Sacre-Coeur. The crypt within is contains a relic which many believe to be a piece of the sacred heart of Christ. The Basilica is very pretty with its domes and arches. This town was also the haunt of artists and writers and all other creative beings; i.e. until prices soared and killed all creative instincts. But you still see artists busy at work, on the tiny winding streets of the town. These streets are typical Parisian streets you have seen in movies; lined with cafes and music playing on the road. An old man was playing an instrument and singing. He had such a lovely voice!! We enjoyed the sights and sounds and smells of the place. It was superb. We almost felt like artists!!!
Well we had to move on and our next stop was a piece of modern architecture. It gets you by its sheer size. It was La Defense. It is a 100 mts hollow cube style building. It’s humungous!!! Sheer size, Sheer power!! We took an elevator to the top and we could see all the attractions of Paris. It was simply amazing.
Our next stop was Place de Concorde. The Place de la Concorde, which is the largest place in Paris, is situated along the Seine and separates the Tuilerie Gardens from the beginning of the Champs Elysées. The famous Obelisk can be seen here. It’s the pencil like monument you see in those postcards; in fact Americans have copied it and they call it the Washington Monument. The difference is that the Paris one is gold tipped and has Egyptian hieroglyphics on it. Champs Elysées (pronounced totally different from the way it is written.) is like the Mall in DC. Concorde, Arc de Triomphe and La Defense are in one straight line. We walked from Concorde to Arc De Triomphe. Its a nice walk along a street lined with cafes and some great shops. It was quite a long walk and with a few café breaks in between J we reached the base of Arc de Triomphe. We decided to leave it and headed off to the Eiffel Tower.
Eiffel Tower: The best view of Eiffel Tower is from Trocadero, which is across the river Seine. It was amazing!!! We had one look at it and we realised that we were in Paris and we were looking at the most famous structure in the world. It was great. Simply stunning. We sat there looking at the structure for sometime. Sat there just absorbing it all in. Finally we decided to walk across to the base. Fortunately we didn’t have to wait in a long queue to get to the top. Eiffel tower has 3 levels. You can walk up to the first 2 levels, but you have to take a lift to the 3rd. (quite naturally!!!!). We took the elevator to the second floor. We just roamed around this level. The view from this level was great. It was getting a bit windy and chilly and so we went up to the 3rd level. Whew!!! If the view from the 2nd was great, then this was stunning!!!! Well critics may say the Eiffel Tower is over-hyped and in fact true Parisians prefer La Defense to Eiffel Tower, but I think its great just for the views. We went up the tower and sat there for 4 hours just waiting for the lights to come up. It was well worth the wait .It was spectacular. The whole city was lit up and in the centre the Eiffel tower... looking really beautiful with all its lights. I can’t describe the scene. No words can do justice to what we felt as we sat there basking in its lights; the gently flowing river down below and the sparkling lights all around. Maybe this was the magic; this was the romance of Paris. It was like falling in love all over again. We got back to the hotel all dewy eyed.
Last day in Paris and we had done almost everything. We decided to go to Musee D'Orsay which is a museum devoted to all forms of arts. It’s an ancient train station, which was converted into a museum. It houses paintings by Monet and Van Gough. Unfortunately we landed there on Monday and it was closed. River Seine beckoned and so we walked along its banks and generally strolled around until we found ourselves at the base of Arc De Triomphe.
Arc De Triomphe is a monument built by Napoleon as a tribute to the Grande Army. This huge arch stands at a very busy traffic roundabout with 12 major roads meeting. The best way to get to the base is via the underground walkway. The last time we came here, we had decided to skip the long climb up. This time we decided to climb those 300 odd stairs to the top of the Arc!!! The view from top was well worth the pain and effort. We enjoyed the view for some time and also sat down to catch our breath!!! (Whew we need to exercise a bit more!!!) Once we caught our breath we ran back to our favourite place, MontMartre. This time we just sat in the cafe and looked at the artists busy with their paintings. It was heavenly. Sadly it was time to come back and so with a heavy heart we packed up and took the plane back home, back to office, back to routine ... but with beautiful memories of a wonderful city.

What makes it worth it

I wake up at an ungodly hour cos he is screaming his lungs out. I look at the clock and see an hour I have never ever seen before. I curse and sigh and turn and pick him up. He looks up at me gives me that smile that melts my heart. My heart sings and I say to myself 'Anytime baby , will do this anytime just for you' ... Thats parenthood. Your life is turned upside down. Till the little bundle of joy lands on your lap, your life was perfect. Everything was planned, you had time for yourself. But there come this lil fella and everything is topsy turvy. Every second the lil someone is demanding your attention. He needs to be fed, needs nappy changed, needs to be comforted. But its that one look of utter love and pure innocence that makes it all worth it. Day starts at 6 (ie if it ever ended) with a tiny hand falling across my face, I turn and I see a tiny face peering at me trying to see if I am awake, I smile and wake up and then starts the rush ... change nappies, play with him, entertain him, take him to the park, sing to him , dance with him ....... There are times when I just want a break ... I sigh and think of all the leisure times I used to have .... and then I hear a tiny voice calling amma .... Once again my heart sings and I say 'Anytime baby , will do this anytime just for you'.. At the end of a long and tiring day I see him sleeping peacefully and I think God, what did I do before he was born ?

Friday 1 June 2007

Trying to be the Perfect Mom

Some v knowledgeable mom once said Mommyhood doesn't come with a manual. How true it is !!! I am not v sure if a manual wld help too, since a mom like me wld spend most of her time checking to see if she was sticking to the manual. I have always been a person who is tensed 90% of the time so u can just imagine my state when akshay was born !!! are we using the ISO standard nappies ? are we feeding him nutritious food ? is he eating well ? is he sleeping enuf ? He looks a little skinny today ... is he loosing weight. Oh no he is so short for his age !! So many questions so many issues ... They say discussing it with other moms makes it easier. But I think it just makes it worse !!! Oh god the neighbours kid doesnt scream as much as he does ... oh god he is walking faster than my kid ... am i doing something fundamentally wrong ? And then there is thing abt Home food. Now that gets my %^&^ .. You say u feed ur baby bottled food and u can see the eyebrows raising .... oooooh really? i prepare my baby's food !! Then u cringe and feel like a little insect. You wait for the earth to open up and take you in !!! Oh no I am now a bad mom who can't even take enough time out to make food for my son. Whew !!! I guess thats a part of being a mom. You can never be perfect. 10 months into mommyhood and I think I can say is u do as u feel and pray that it all turns out okie.
Wonder if dad's have it as bad ???